About Matthew

A Journey to Healing

My name is Matthew Glosenger, and by most of the world's definitions, I was a failure. I had been married three times, with two ending in divorce. I had children who didn't want to speak to me. I had burned bridges with friends, family, and colleagues. I was isolated, angry, and convinced that the world was the problem.

I was wrong.

For years, I was "that guy." The one who was always right, even when I was wrong. The one who saw conflict as a battlefield and relationships as territory to be defended. I believed that if everyone else would just change, my life would be perfect. But the common denominator in all my broken relationships, all my frustrations, and all my unhappiness was me.

The Turning Point

Six years ago, everything changed. I had an epiphany—a profound realization that became a spiritual awakening. I realized that I had spent my entire life trying to fix everyone else while refusing to look at the person in the mirror. And when I finally looked, I discovered something I hadn't expected: I wasn't alone. There was a Person who had been with me the whole time, waiting for me to notice.

That discovery changed everything. It was the beginning of my heart's epiphany. It was the moment I stopped looking outward for blame and started looking inward for answers. It was the moment I discovered that true power isn't in being right—it's in being present. It's in choosing understanding over victory, connection over control, and love over fear.

The Transformation

The journey wasn't easy. It required brutal honesty, deep humility, and a willingness to let go of the person I thought I was. I had to learn to listen to my body, to recognize the physical sensations that signaled emotional distress. I had to practice the art of disagreeing without being disagreeable. I had to forgive people who had hurt me—not for their sake, but for mine.

Most importantly, I had to surrender. I had to let go of the illusion that I could control the universe and everyone in it. I had to trust that when I changed myself, the world around me would change too.

And it did.

The Mission

Today, I am not perfect. I am still learning, still growing, still reaching. But I am no longer "that guy." I am a healing factor in the lives of the people around me. I am a husband, a father, a friend, and a guide to others who are tired of the same broken patterns.

This website, this book, and this journey are my way of sharing what I've learned. My hope is that you will find in these pages the same freedom I found—the freedom to be yourself, to love without fear, and to heal the relationships that matter most.

You are not broken. The gold was always there. You just needed to see it.